Molly-Moo

Well, Ruby is going to a birthday party with Katherine this evening and then spending the night with her. She is so very excited! When I told her about the plan this morning, she hugged me and told me I was the best mom in the world. Cute. I am so thankful that she has a close, sweet friend with a great family that I totally trust. She loves spending time with them.
So, that leaves me, Molly and Mack here alone. Josh is on his way back from NYC. Molly thrives with one-on-one attention. She likes being THE big sister to Mack. She helped me fold clothes this evening, too. She wanted to know why Daddys wear underwear and girls wear panties. Mack was hiding from us and then coming out and “attacking” us with growls and all. He is such a boy! He fell down one time, and I was just talking to him and saying, “Mack, what happened to you? Huh?” Molly let me say it a few times, then she said, “He fell, Mom.” I told her that I knew he fell. I was just talking to him. She then said, “Mama, he can’t talk” as if I didn’t know that.
Josh’s truck has been here because he rode with Jeff to the airport. Well, Molly asked me today, “Is Daddy walking everywhere?” It was funny. She thought that if he didn’t have his truck, then surely he was having to walk to wherever he was going.

I am not sure what we are going to do this evening…I am sure I need to drag out some paint or some sort of game, but I am SO POOPED! We got up this morning, I bathed and dressed everyone (and all that it entails), went to church to pay for dance class and handwriting class for the Spring, went to the carwash to get my car cleaned and vacummed out, then went to Wal-Mart to pick up a few things….$111.00 worth of “a few things.” How does this happen????

It’s the most wonderful time of the year…

This time of the year really is so wonderful.  Having kids has even enhanced the excitement of this time.  They yell at every light they see.  Ruby even was super excited when she saw the tacky stockings on the light poles at a local Publix.  And the music is fun.  I can’t tell you how many times I play Jingle Bells on my ipod in the car.  Mack has even started getting into “All I Want For Christmas.”  Ruby can be heard at all sorts of random times singing “Away in a Manger” in her oh-so-sweet-singing voice that she inherited from her Daddy.  She even makes up some words, also like her daddy! (“the little BOY Jesus laid down his sweet head” is one of many) I couldn’t find a pen in the car or I would share how she was singing “Deck the Halls.”  Oh my…it was very funny!!!!  

The other night I was lying in bed and talking to Josh and just telling him how I hope we are doing all we can do to help our kids understand the true meaning of all the celebration this time of year…it is not about the presents, it is not about the great music, it is not about the lights, it is not about getting your Christmas card out (still having a hard time letting this one go!), it is not about a perfect Christmas tree with perfectly balanced ornaments (that is SO over here since Mack pulled our tree down), it isn’t about Santa, it isn’t about finding that perfect present for your father (an impossible task)….but it IS about Jesus. (Just watched Charlie Brown Christmas..what a great show!!!)  Why does that so often get shoved to the back of our minds?  I mean, I have  three nativity sets out in our home, a nativity pillow, and we don’t even do Santa, but it still can be hard in my heart to truly be motivated by the love of Jesus when there are so many things TO DO!  My mind has been cluttered, my heart has been cluttered, and I haven’t been spending time with Jesus as much as I need to…He will direct my heart to Him and fill me with Himself.  That is what makes this the most wonderful time of the year, the most wonderful part of life, actually.  I don’t want to miss HIM this Christmas.  I don’t want my kids to miss HIM either.  images

CHRISTMAS PAST Christmas Party

Friday night Josh and I went to our Sunday School Christmas party.  It was so much fun!  Our party planning committee did a FABULOUS job…the decorations were wonderful, the food was yummy, and everyone had a great time.  We raised over $1,000 for the Holly Park Mobile Home Park by participating in a silent auction.  We brought home some great gifts…an apologetics Bible for Josh, a two week membership to the Coffee Park for me and the kids, a gift card to THREE SISTERS, a race car for my dad, Jersey Mikes picnic baskets,  a monogrammed candle….fun!  We dressed crazy.  I am not sure we were in a certain era.  It was just plain ugly.  Ruby told me (about my hair) that she really liked the hills in it….haha!  I borrowed a friend’s crimper from way back and it worked beautifully or ugily, just like it was supposed to.  And then, in the car before we left the house, Josh ran back inside to get our camera,and Ruby said, “Mom, tell Daddy to leave that shiny sweater in the car when he goes into the nursery.”  She was going to be embarrassed about the sweater, but not the yellow pants and white shoes???   She told Josh she really liked my sweater. (It must have weighed ten pounds!)  Too funny.  And, of course, I can’t leave Jason out.  He dressed similarly to Josh except his pants were several sizes too small.  

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Cindy and Rocky Pizza
Cindy and Rocky Pizza
Jennifer and Shane Hewgley
Jennifer and Shane Hewgley

 

Mark and Deidre Anderson
Mark and Deidre Anderson

      

Melissa and Harley Mauldin
Melissa and Harley Mauldin

 

Jason and our kids
Jason and our kids

GREAT DAY!

Today was a GREAT day.  First of all, my cleaning lady, Mrs. Lee, was scheduled to come clean my house.  What a blessing.  I have enjoyed her services so much.  Secondly, the kids and I were planning to get out of the house for a few hours, which is usually nice.  Today they were all so well-behaved and sweet.

We started out by driving by our new house site.  Not much was going on, but it was nice to go out there and take a look.  Next, we drove to the local GOODWILL.  I had to find something to wear to our Sunday School Class Christmas party…the theme is “Christmas Past” and tacky dress is suggested.  I found a sweater for me from 1992 that has a huge Christmas tree on it with teddy bears and gifts.  It must weigh ten pounds.  I found Josh a red shirt that looks like a retiree’s shirt, a yellow polyester pair of pants, and a nice pair of white shoes.  Oh my goodness.  I asked the girls what they thought and Molly said, “Is Daddy gonna wear those LELLOW pants?”  I am not sure he will, but that is the intent.  Pictures will come soon if he follows through!  The girls found a toy in Goodwill that they really wanted…a talking and moving Simba tiger for $2.00.  It is very close to Christmas, but I gave in.  They were very appreciative and shared the tiger so well in the car.

Next, we went to Waffle House for lunch.  I am SO TIRED of Wendy’s hamburgers and fries, so I thought we would try Waffle House.  The kids loved it as well.  They ate eggs, hashbrowns and waffles, of course.

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There is a busy road by the WH sign, so I didn’t dare let Mack stand there for a picture.  He’d much rather be sitting in the “golf cart” driving.  

Our next stop was Hobby Lobby (writing this is making me impressed with myself…this is a lot with THREE kiddos!!).  At Hobby Lobby I just needed some wrapping paper and a few decorative ornaments for my gifts.  As we were leaving, there was a lady standing at the checkout stands.  She had something wrong with her eye and was carrying a cane and just looked different than most of the people we are around.  Well, the girls were totally staring….bodies turned and eyes glued on her.  I said, under my breath, “Ruby, Molly, look at ME.”  They wouldn’t turn around.  I pinched Ruby’s shoulder, trying to get her to stop staring, but it didn’t even work.  Then, Molly says TO THE LADY, “What’s wrong with your eye?”  OH MY WORD!   Did that just happen?  Oh no!!!!  I look at the lady with an “I am so sorry she just asked that” face and then whispered crisply into Molly’s ear, “Do not ask her that.”  But the lady looked at me and said, “Don’t worry about it…they’re just curious.  Kids are just curious.” Then, she looked at Molly and said, “I had an accident, baby.”  Then, the lady said that she was needing to get some prescriptions filled and then she started crying.  (I think the manager of HobbyLobby was trying to get her some help, but I am not sure he could…they are a Christian company, so that may be why she was stopping in there for help…not sure)  Anyway, I gave Ruby some money and told her to go give it to the lady.  She did, and the lady cried and said, “God Bless you and Merry Christmas.”  It was sad, but I am glad we were able to give her some money.  I don’t know what she will use it for, but that is ok.  I knew I was supposed to do something.  Molly continued to stick her foot in her mouth by asking rather loudly, “Why did we give that boy some money?”  I whispered, “That is a lady, Molly.”  She wanted to argue about it, but I quickly ushered them out of the store.

Ruby asked me why we gave that lady money, so I was able to explain to her that the only reason we would want to give anything is because Jesus gave Himself for us, which by the way, is their Cubbies verse that we had been working on all morning, “Christ also has loved us, and he gave Himself for us…” Epheshians 5:2  I tied it all together and it was a beautiful moment…a beautiful moment that got interrupted by Molly.  “That wasn’t a woman.  That was a man.”  She kept pressing the point, and I kept trying to explain to her that she was a lady….then, it finally came out.  “BUT MAMA, she had a candy cane like Papa Mac does, so that he won’t fall!!!”  She must have thought that just because the lady had a walking cane, she was a man since the only person she has seen with a walking stick is Papa Mac, who is a man.  I explained that even some women use “candy canes” to help them not fall down.  

And another giving moment….we stopped at the Salvation Army pot outside of Hobby Lobby to put in some money.  The girls were asking why we were doing it, and I was, AGAIN, able to explain why….telling them how we have so much and some people don’t have anything, etc, etc and all about how Jesus gave Himself for us, which is the only reason we would want to give to others, etc, etc….we started walking to the car and a lady walking by said strongly, “Good job, Mom” and she smiled at me as she walked by.  It was just nice to get that little encouragement from someone…I assume another mom with grown kids…a mom who knows it isn’t easy to take the time to teach your kids about giving and why we give.  I definitely appreciated it.

We walked in to a clean house that smelled WONDERFUL.  What a great day.  Now I am off to wrap some gifts to put under the tree…..all in hopes that Mack just won’t notice them….yeah, right.

AND THE TREE CAME TUMBLING DOWN…

Our family went to get our live tree last night at Berry Patch Farms.  It was SO COLD.  I didn’t realize just how cold it was, therefore we weren’t exactly dressed appropriately. (The other family riding with us had on their perfect winter coats with matching gloves, ear muffs, etc…oh well.)  We rode on a trailer and a tractor pulled us to the tree farm. Molly snuggled up with Josh and said, “Daddy, even my eyes are cold.”  Now that is cold.  Last year Molly did not like all the noise from the tractor and cried just about the whole time we were on our tree adventure.  This year, she said, “I AM NOT SCARED, DADDY!!!  I LIKE THE TRACTOR.”  We were glad she enjoyed herself so much.  Mack loved the tractor and wanted to be ON the tractor instead of riding behind it.  As we were riding, Molly saw the house that you can go in to get hot chocolate or warm up by a fire.  She remembered everything from last year…”remember the fire and the dog that was asleep?”  It is scary how much she remembers.

The night was fun…we got home, ate chili and rice, then started decorating the tree.  I bought these red and white candy-looking things to stick in the tree.  Ruby called them “lollies.”  Mack tried to eat them.  It was Molly’s turn to put the angel on the tree.  She had been very excited about it until the actual time came to put on the angel.  She screamed with fear, so Josh ended up putting the angel on top of the tree.  The whole time we were trying to decorate the tree, Mack was into EVERYTHING.  I mean, he would not be still.  We ended up trapping him in his highchair so that we could get something done.  We made cookies and listened to Christmas music…and overall just had a great evening getting our house ready for Christmas.  

THEN CAME THE MORNING….I was prepared to train Mack not to touch the tree.  I was going to show it to him and tell him not to touch.  I pinched his chubby hand when he touched anyway…we did this several times and then he walked away to play.  He played great and didn’t touch the tree.  I left the room and then checked in on him, and he didn’t touch the tree.  What a good boy!!!!  Then, I was in the office on the phone waiting to talk to someone from our new mortgage company.  I was on hold, so I decided to start cleaning up the desk.  Then, after about 10 minutes, someone answered only to tell me that they could tell me nothing because I am not Josh.  Lovely…then, two seconds later I hear a CRASH.  It sounded horrible.  I went into the living room to see my newly decorated tree flat on the floor.  Mack was just standing there with one of my “lollies” in his hand.  No tears, no fear, no “uh-oh” look on his face…just standing there as if nothing had happened!!!  I sent everyone out of the room so that I wouldn’t throw a certain someone out the window, and I tried to stand the tree up.  It wouldn’t balance at first, so after much struggle, I got the stupid tree up.  It didn’t look quite as fresh and cute as it had the night before.  We never had to worry about Ruby or Molly pulling our tree down to the ground….boys are so different and so destructive.  I got the girls a stick-on-the-window manger scene…the kind that sticks on and pulls off over and over…well, when Mack gets ahold of any piece of it, he balls it up in his fist.  Goodness gracious.  

I hope we survive the holidays without our tree being pulled down again.  That would be real nice.

 

On the tractor ride
On the tractor ride
Molly and Ruby loving the tractor ride
Molly and Ruby loving the tractor ride

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Mack has a small tractor just like this one
Mack has a small tractor just like this one
Baking cookies
Baking cookies

 

Molly scared to death to put up the angel
Molly scared to death to put up the angel